I found this very interesting!
After my last trip to The Grove......I spoke with my grandmother about it. She told me that she had not only heard of Bachelor's Grove, but VISITED it. In the mid-late 50's!
She remembers driving down a very long road that went through the woods and eventually came across the cemetery. (old Midlothian Turnpike?)
Also, she remembered looking for the dissapearing "farmhouse" but never saw anything of the sort that she can remember. I thaught it very interesting that the legend was popular even nearly 60 years ago.
She went in the middle of the night (of course, at that time it being perfectly legal) and saw bright red lights moving through the surrounding darkness. After that, she decided to hightail it out of there!
She said that a few pictures were taken! I would LOVE to try to get a hold of them!!